You need him/her

You need him/her

As the week winds down and October too runs ahead  to call up November to ready herself….that`s true friendship, when friends look out for one another.

The warmth in my heart is  undeniable as I write this post, I love how my mind flows with my fingers when writing commences. My  fingers type out the mind.“That’s true friendship.’’ The former knows what the latter is capable of.

My besties  Vicks and Mapeti  know what I am capable of especially when it comes to writing and fashion. We have know each other for a number of years now and they know what opportunities look like me. Simply because we have had discussions on everything and nothing while in Posh, over fries, jinja adventures ,chat on which fashion bloggers to follow..Eh!! list is endless. Vicks told me about a writing gig for an online blog-zine Elle Afrique where I have become a contributing writer (

We all need that one friend (or more) who knows what we are all about  and when they see opportunity dressed in any form, they know it belongs to us.

You need him/her

Do your friends know what you are good at? Do they support you while at it because they see how much it has consumed you? As you let your friends know where your heading in life; find out there they are heading too. Know their dreams and  encourage them to reach for them on a daily basis. When you find opportunities that they can benefit from, inform them.

Our friends are our next step to our big breakthrough, they have networks that you might never tap into however that is why they are their…right?

In short, share your dreams with your friends because they unconsciously look out for you when they see an opportunity that will benefit you.They push you towards achieving your dreams, when you don`t think you can do it.

You need him/her




4 thoughts on “You need him/her

  1. Beautifully written! I love this and I completely agree, there are some key relationships in life, not just for where we need to go, but for making the journey there worthwhile. We need each other.

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