If you are a lady you must be familiar with this term, “one size fits all’ when it comes to clothes. However, I have come to the realization that one size doesn`t fit all. As we embrace different seasons in our lives, we must embrace them with the motto, ‘one size will never fit all.’’
This is the reason why clothes have various sizes. It is not because they have variety of materials but simply because some sizes flatter certain bodies and others don`t. Shoemakers know this too well and diversify shoe sizes too.
Being a 20 something girl in this 21st century is hard or people make it hard on us. Our sengas (local word for aunt) hammer us with the “get married’ now talk. They go ahead to set conditions of what kind of man you should bring home, how the wedding and traditional function should be. They mean well however, they must know one size doesn`t fit all. There is a time and season to all things.
Ecclesiastes“ to everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven.’’NKJV
If the people around you think you are ripe for marriage, certain opportunities…..what does God say not think? SAY
Since we finished campus in 2014, some of my friends have been married, others have babies and some are travelling like their middle name is travel .Oh did I mention, that some have THE jobs to die for. I am genuinely happy for them and I don`t want to be unsettled by their seasons neither should you be.
Ecclesiastes 3: 11, “He has made everything beautiful in its time.’’ NKJV
Embrace the fact that God has made all things beautiful in HIS TIME .
Be happy in your size and don`t try making it work for others nor should you try other people`s sizes. Be content in your own skin, size, time and season .
One size will never fit all……